2009 April | All About Kids

How would i find a small children’s charity based in Manchester UK to raise money for?

I am going to run the Manchester Great North Run again this year, and want to raise money for a children’s charity. Preferably one that helps vulnerable children in the manchester area. However when i search online all i get is the large charity’s that want minimum donations etc. I just want to be able to raise as much as possible for a charity that hardly get any funding..


Types Of Children’s Furniture

Children’s furniture is furniture that is specifically designed to be used by children. There are two things that set children’s furniture apart from parent’s furniture. The obvious is size as children’s furniture is smaller. Secondly, the theme and color of children’s furniture is much different than parent’s furniture. It is often available in cute colors such as pastels. As a result, children’s furniture looks great in playrooms, nurseries, and child bedrooms.

Children’s Furniture Styles

There are many different styles of children’s furniture. The three main styles are as follows:

Traditional Children’s Furniture - Light oak stained finish to classic white, tradional children’s furniture, as the name suggests, is traditional with little fanfare. It is made to look great in any child’s room.

Theme Children’s Furniture - From Fireman to sports star, depending on your child’s interests, there is undoubtedly a set of theme children’s furniture to accompany it. With rocking chairs to child desks, theme children’s furniture is extremely popular.

Handpainted Children’s Furniture - Handpainted children’s furniture might conjure up the thoughts of a local craft fair but many sets are now done by artists that produce unique pieces that are fun. You do not have to sacrifice durability and quality for uniqueness. Handpainted children’s furniture is really more than a piece of children’s furniture as it truly is a piece of art.

Types of Children’s Furniture

Though many different accent pieces are available such as clothes stands and rocking horses are available, these children’s furniture pieces are the centerpieces and staples of a child’s room.

Children’s Beds

There is a period of time when a child is no longer an infant and requires a crib yet is not old enough for an adult bed. A toddler cot is a great middle step to before being old enough for an adult bed. Toddler cots are built close to the ground so you don’t have to worry about your child falling out. They are also available in themes that look great in a toddler’s bedroom where as an adult bed would look out of place.

Child Desks

Child’s Desks are an important piece of furniture for their development. They are use to sitting behind a desk at school and there is an excellent chance that as adults your child will sit behind a desk for extended periods of time. Having a desk to work on the computer, read a book, or complete homework is important as it reinforces good study skills; certainly an asset as they continue their education process.

Seating Options

From child table and chair sets to simple rocking chairs, having a chair in the playroom is a great children’s furniture piece which invites your child to have quite time and read a book, play with playdoh or draw with crayons. Adult table and chair sets are too difficult for your child to reach and get comfortable. Whereas children’s size table and chair sets are great alternatives. As other children’s furniture, child table and chair sets come in great themes from ballerinas to all star sports that are fun and inviting.

Storage Solutions

Storage solutions for kid’s rooms is a necessity. How many times have you insisted that your child clean their room only to go in their an hour later only to see it in the same disarray it was earlier. Sometimes, this is a result of simply not having enough storage options for your child to put the plethora of toys away. Toy boxes are a great solution to this age old problem as they are child size to reach the lid and come in great themes that look great in any child’s room.

Bookshelves

Children love books and they have a lot of them! Parents, grandparents and friends love giving books to children as it promotes learning and imagination. But keeping the books in a cardboard box tucked away in the closet results in the “out of sight, out of mind” syndrome that doesn’t lend itself well to getting full use of all those books. A child bookshelf is a great way to keep those books front and center and encourage your child to pick one out at a moment’s notice whenever they feel the urge. Children’s bookshelves are a great addition to any child’s bedroom or playroom.

Children’s Furniture Requirements

One of the main considerations in purchasing children’s furniture, is to ensure that it is tough and durable. Children are rough on everything, especially in their developmental years, before they learn the benefit (and necessity) of taking care of their belongings. As a result, children’s furniture should be built to withstand the constant interaction of children. Many reputable manufacturers field test their product for this very reason. Also, safety is a consideration when purchasing children’s furniture. Look for rounded corners as an example. Lastly, children’s furniture should be fun! It should capture their imagination and call out to them in a way that envokes their positive emotions. This is a very popular trend today as more and more manufacturers of children’s furniture are producing new products that keep this in mind.

In conclusion, when choosing children’s furniture there is a lot to think about. Understanding what you are looking for in terms of style, size and theme is the best place to start.


How do you teach young children to be sensitive to race differences?

My husband and I (both white) are trying very hard to raise our children to judge people by their character rather than by the way they look. We have recently moved to a Southern state and are living in a more ethnically diverse area than where we previously lived. My 3 year old daughter has started, in some circumstances, to refer to African-Americans as chocolate, — as in the chocolate man came to our school and told us stories.

I can tell by her reaction to meeting children and adults of different races that she means nothing negative by her comments, but I am concerned that someone will find them offensive. I struggle with whether I should correct her and what I should say to her.

I would appreciate any thoughts and comments on this one. Thanks!

Help Underprivileged Children, They Need Aid!

 

Every child is special and he or she deserves to achieve his growth and dreams in a healthy surrounding. He or she should not be devoid of his or her primary rights. It is a birth right of a child to enjoy his or her primary rights (as per the constitution).

 

Each child deserves to grow up in a healthy environment where he gets access to health related facilities such as quality integrated water and sanitation services. Underprivileged children’s charity organizations work for unaided children to access to such healthy environs. They promote and provide these impoverished children a better upbringing in which they can attain their full potential to lead a meaningful life in the future.

 

Various non-profit organizations help children in India who are leading a miserable life. These organizations raise funds from various bodies and firms and utilize the same for the well-being of underprivileged children. They enable various deprived children as well as their families and communities to meet the primary needs. They also help in building the ability of these children to participate and benefit from the societies. They come up with various encouraging steps that help in promoting the interest of underprivileged children to fight the odds.

 

Charity for children is an encouraging step to help impoverished children attain and rise up to a better living standard. The various charity organizations ensure lasting development in the quality of life of deprived children in various developing countries. They operate through a process, which unifies people across cultures. They further add importance and value to the lives of vulnerable children.

 

One alarming subject about underprivileged children (in terms of gender issue) is the status of girl child. Underprivileged girl children are in grave danger than underprivileged boy child. Girl child often tend to become a victim of human trafficking. The role of various non-profit organizations in this context is highly appreciative. They provide various awareness campaigns, which eradicate their ignorance about different related issues. Various training and vocational courses are also provided to help girl child ensure a better living standard with hope and confidence.



Ranges of organizations, which provide charity for children, are dedicated to provide a better living standard to orphan and abandoned children. They cater to the physical and educational needs of these children. Moreover, they ensure these underprivileged children to become meaningful leaders of the future generation. Underprivileged children’s charities provide meals and education, medical assistance and educational facilities (along with hygiene facilities). They are committed to build long-term community benefits for vulnerable children.

 

Charity organizations, which help children in India, strive to eradicate social and economic inequalities. For this particular mission, they are dedicated to work for the well-being of impoverished children. They help underprivileged children since they are aware that these children need aid. We can also generate this awareness amongst ourselves now so that the society is eradicated from any inequality- political, social or economical. Children are the building blocks of a society we must help them achieve their dreams for a meaningful tomorrow.

What is an appropriate age for children to have cellphones?

Have you noticed how many toddlers and children in primary schools carry cellphones with them lately?
Is it necessary for children between the ages of 6 and 13 to have a cellphone?
What are your opinions on this?

5 Ways To Increase Your Children’s Success Rate

Nothing compares with the joy of watching our children succeed, watching our children win in life.

You can experience more of such joy. You can help your children achieve more success. In fact, you can double their success rate. Here’s how you can do it. Follow these five smart ways:

1. Increase your children’s self-esteem

This is very important. Children who feel good about themselves, who have confidence in themselves, achieve more success. You can use one simple but highly effective method to increase your children’s self-esteem—keep reminding them of their good qualities and success.

This will strengthen their self confidence. It will make them believe that they can achieve what they want.

2. Help your children to set goals

Goals will give a direction to your children’s thoughts and to their life. It is a best way to stimulate your children to make proper use of their time and energy.

Hence encourage your children to set some goals—like study goals or career goals, and ask them to do their best to achieve it. Allow them the freedom to set the goals which they want to achieve. Do not force your interest on them. However, you can guide them to make right decisions, if they seem confused or undecided.

3. Help your children to make correct choices

Your children can avoid many problems and failures if they choose things which match with their interests and strengths. Things in which they are naturally good.

This means, your children should choose study-subjects and career based on their natural strengths, talents and interest.

For example, if your son is good in music then it will be best for him to choose career based on music. If your daughter is strong in math, it would be a right decision to choose higher education and career based on mathematics. Such choices based on children’s strength, interest, and natural talent, help them to learn faster and make better progress.

Observe your children to find out in which work they are good at. What things interest them. In which subjects they score higher consistently. Also ask your children what are their aims, dreams and interests.

All this information will help your children to choose a particular educational qualification or job or business that suits them better.

4. Keep your children optimistic about their future

Children see failures, unemployment, job retrenchments, violence, and other depressing things around them—either through the media or in the life of people known to them.

These negative things can demotivate children. It can make them lose interest in studies and career. It can make them think they don’t have much chance for achieving success. Such thinking might make them apprehensive about their future. You can prevent this.

Teach your children to convert problems into solutions. To look for opportunities in difficulties.

Also turn your children’s attention to those people who are achieving success. While there are people living in depressing conditions, there are also thousands of other people who are getting good jobs, earning wealth, fulfilling their dreams and living happily.

With this kind of thinking, your children will not get discouraged. They will remain reassured about their future and make efforts to reach for their dreams.

5. Keep up the energy level



Bad health can adversely affect children’s learning ability and performance level. Help your children to stay healthy and energetic.

Encourage them to eat healthy and nutritious food, drink sufficient water, sleep properly and exercise regularly. If the body is healthy, then the mind will also be healthy. Your children will be able to study more, work more, and enjoy their life better.

Sex Education Among Children in India

SEX EDUCATION AMONG CHILDREN

The reason we boast sometimes on Indian culture, is because it has rich values, values that are of high morale and unique to the world. Values are something on which our life thrives. We find organizations thriving on values, families stand united on its values, and the very humanity stands on human values. Without values, an individual would have no identity. We deliver value when we execute pride in holding our national symbols. We deliver value when we show respect to our elders. We owe value when we look at each female with the respect as high as that for a mother. And it is these values, that brings in us courage to hold against the odds. It is these values that help us to go ahead in life along with our family, with our friends, with our colleagues, with the society and with the nation all together. No doubt, values are as important as our life itself.

One of these great Indian values is about educating our children to hold against the most devastating erotic feelings towards opposite gender, the so called ‘Sex’. Sex is a powerful temptation and it requires very strong values to hold upon it. However, it is now days challenged by educated section of society, particularly the followers of western culture, in the name of exposing the mystery to the curious and immature child.

The conclusion made by these literates is that it is a prevention methodology, which would make the next generation safe from the perils of Sex. Universally, prevention is better than cure, goes as a law, but the question remains – Is sex education a prevention, cure or an experiment the result of which is either not known or is deliberately being forced in the society? What if you have educated a child in sex and he fails to hold his temptations thereafter? What would you call that situation – the prevention failed or the medicine failed? Let us try to understand prevention in a better way. If I am not mistaken, prevention is a boundary, a boundary that tells you what lies on the other side. At a broad level, there are three types of boundaries:

• First, we are completely aware what lie on the other side of the boundary. For example, nearly every one knows the after effect of smoking.

• Second, we are partially or unaware of the negative factors and accept the boundaries as a part of cultural values, with the awareness of the positive factors within the boundary. For example, if we do exercise, we say it is a preventive measure from bad health. The details of bad health may not be known in completeness to the doer, but there is a straight conception that fits to his mind – exercise is good for health.

• Third, we are completely unaware of positive or negative factors on either side of the boundary. For example, doing some rituals as a religious practice.

If Sex education is a prevention boundary, it should find a place in one of the above category. First, why do we need this education? A simple answer is that we do it sometimes. Second, how do we do sex (even with our spouse): in privacy or publicly? Do we discuss it out openly with friends and expose our spouse to them? If answers to these questions is ‘No’ and convincingly ‘No’, then the first boundary lies with the adults itself – how can they talk sex with their children or students, when we cannot practice it before them? We have to understand a very important aspect here. If we dare to talk such things with children, we are breaking away the boundary of respect and regard straight away (they or we not able to talk sex with each other signifying that there is some regard that produces this shyness or hesitation). We are undoubtedly introducing a concept that would teach our children to go beyond this boundary and easily practice sex, the barriers being broken and broken by teachers and parents first. During childhood, sex is a curiosity and hence is not known to them completely. All they know is that it is considered wrong by elders and is practiced between parents. Curiosity can take shape of temptation and temptations would lead to doing the wrong, if children are not taught of values that can help them prevent the temptation. Talking to them about sex would kill their curiosity and give birth to educated temptation. Thus, sex education so seeming to be an experimented cure, would necessarily lead to side effect of practicing sex as an educated practitioner. Sex education would in fact as a catalyst in producing sexual practices, and can in no way be a preventive measure. This education has no relation with feelings like temptations. Temptations can be only held by practice of cultural values, may be as a fear to breach the respectful barrier. Preventive measures are healthier and positive aspects, and can be talked and propagated positively towards everyone. Holding to values and teaching our children to remain in boundaries is actually a preventive measure and would protect majority of them from committing the hazard.

The proposed solution is still experimentation – the world is yet to see a generation that would be protected from practicing sex early during childhood and teenage after getting educated on sex. The proposed solution of sex education is thus very much risky and it can totally devastate the society if it fails to deliver the purpose, provoking children to enter premature sexual relations.

The intuition and notion of sex education as a solution started to create the awareness towards the deadly disease ‘AIDS’. It is a disease born out of sex and can spread out of various reasons which includes unsafe sex, blood transfusion, etc. The first unseen and politicized mistake is acceptance by the society that people need to be aware of this disease and should adapt to safe sex practices. At this point it seemed unquestionably correct, as adults were to be educated for usage of condoms. Unfortunately, this was the stepping stone towards growing errors. The ground error is that it is accepted that adults cannot hold from doing extra-marital and pre-marital affairs. And the true solution negated is – people not educated on values and importance of holding on values. It is here values plays its importance and Indian value in this term is very much known to the society – no extra-marital affairs and no pre-marital affairs – complete honesty with the partner and thus complete dedication towards their home leading to a life that is happy and supported by your relations and respected by outsiders – No possibility of AIDS in existence.

But more ground fact is that above values cannot be achieved unless it is inculcated in people when they are still ripe, when they are as young as children. Childhood is a state where you shape up your character. It takes huge effort for adults to change their nature, but not for a child. Values inculcated in children can help them grow to a brighter and healthier personality. This seems to me so simple to execute, simple because it can very easily get passed on to following generation as family values. In fact, it is still a part of Indian culture, which by the weapon of sex education, being totally devastated under the umbrella of the word ‘EDUCATION’. What is wrong in asking our children to respect elders and consider every woman as respectable as our own mother and sister? It is all about building this strong and positive perception in our little gems. In fact, would we dare to call our little angels as angels and gems, the moment we realize that he has adopted to means like sex which is not suitable to his age, which his mind would not absorb to the fullest of the concept, where there would be every chance for him to slip towards experiencing it because now the education is exposing the vulnerable erotic and ecstatic feelings which is yet in abnormal form of curiosity in the child – would we still dare to call our children as angels and gems. Will he not start challenging his patience by thinking the same about his relations? Will he then enjoy respect and regards towards any of the opposite gender? And I wonder why it is not thought that once sex goes into the education stream of children, children would by natural manner start talking about it among them. A child boy will talk to a child girl about their sex knowledge – a boundary that protects every child (at least most of them), from sexual pitfalls at early age would be totally destroyed. Is this what our modern parent expects from their children? As long as children do not talk about sex, they would fear to break the boundary and majority of the generation can be saved. But once, this is broken, majority of the generation would be devastated.

I sometimes ponder, why is human so weak to not realize the problems of practices like sex education? Why didn’t they look at societies which has already experimented this as a solution? We can very well go into the western education system where sex is a compulsory education and try to quantify and derive statistics on whether it has actually helped children from doing sex. The facts would be un-amazingly opposite to what is being proposed. They are exposed to sex as an adoptable practice, they are aware of how to protect from sexual disease, for instance by using condoms, and they simply enter into actually doing it. Why don’t we realize a simple thing, children would experiment everything if they are given the freedom? As responsible adults, we are to guide children about wrong and right and not expose them to the wrongs and the means to do the wrongs without getting harmed.

It would be surprising to understand that foundations of such human weaknesses are laid down by modern western thinkers, who adopt the theory and practice of allowing children to do what they wish. These thinkers believe that children require information about everything that they see and hear and if not provided they will get it from wrong sources, and hence, as responsible parents and elders we should share with them all problems like sex, deaths, hazards, etc. Truly speaking, there is a very thin boundary between good and bad, between right and wrong, so thin that once you cross, there is nearly no regret, no comeback. People often start smoking or drinking, with an attitude to taste – how it feels – and the boundary is broken. Next time, it is not the first time and they do it with the intention that it would be the last time and the action repeats. Why can’t we straightaway put into the minds of our children to keep away from these things by letting them realize that it is bad – very bad? Some parents agree to this as the impact of smoking is quite visible to them. How can it happen that all other behaviors of life don’t have similar negative impacts? It is seriously required to define the boundary of right and wrong in all that we do. For instance, philosophers and psychiatrists are now provoking people to talk sex with children. They believe that they will learn it from wrong sources and stealthily, which would create negative behavior in them. How silly? Why can’t children be allowed to consider it wrong as long as they are children? Why aren’t they allowed to learn about such things as they grow in boundaries and learn to practice it only in right manner at right time? Why are these great thinkers so eager to take away the opportunity of self – development from these children, which nature has provided them? Nature doesn’t allow children to do sex and hence it is wrong for them as long as they are children. What is wrong in telling them that it is wrong and bad when actually it is wrong at their stage? They automatically will learn its importance and usage when they grow and such children will respect sex and practice it religiously as a part of married life.

Accepting that children would learn sex from wrong sources, is actually an acceptance to the happenings in the society around – cultural degradation in social environment remains unchallenged and in fact attains maturity by allowing the upcoming generation to get educated on it and practice it untimely. Children would grow physically weak, and to much greater extent mentally weak if they endeavor to unfold their temptations through sexual education. The next generation is being challenged for their superiority of behavior and the induced sex education would surely overthrow the master culture of respect and regard.

We need to help our children to enhance their resistive power, their tolerance power, their patience, their understanding to respect and regard the values taught by parents and teachers. We cannot simply accept that our children would learn from wrong source about habits that are tempting, if we do not allow them to learn from us. We cannot make our children so weak that they go for anything that fulfills their mental desires and curiosity. We need to develop in them right from their childhood a habit to hold on temptations, so that they get matured enough to handle toughest situations in life. Indian culture have always taught children to grow up by practicing patience, yoga, respect towards elders, and all positive aspects that can create a great individual. Isn’t it necessary for our society to have stable families with respectable practices?

If Indian values and practices that taught children of such high attitude are considered as Stone Age by modern tutors, this would be unfortunate for the country. It is so simple to understand that people of Stone Age were used to living in nudity, and if we have grown rich in knowledge and understood the importance of clothes in societies, we have to respect clothes. Clothes are the first indication of boundaries against sex and children are to be protected from media which breaks this boundary. Let us promise to help our upcoming generation to become strong mentally, brace enough to fight these petty temptations and grow powerful in their thinking so that they are capable of doing great tasks.

SEX IN HINDUISM

Swami Vivekanand said, “In west, every woman other than mother is a wife. Among Hindus, every woman other than wife is a mother.” I do not know other religion, than Hinduism, which teaches values of so high regard. Such high values exist because sex was never neglected in Indian philosophy – it was rather researched to be a powerful source of energy in any individual. It was understood that any energy has to be utilized in the boundary of natural law and hence, sex was to be practiced by recognized partners, only for specific purpose and within age boundaries. It was recognized that mastering sex required immense control on the self and practicing it only with partners required even greater control on self. Going beyond this to practice it only for the purpose of reproduction, to meet the purpose of nature, was even tougher. Thus, this natural power of every creature was considered as a natural power and as usual, every natural power in Hindu philosophy holds a Deity in its name. Thus, ‘Kamadeva’ (Deity of lust) came into being. Sex became a concept of worship and anything worship-able was never misused.

Sex as a study went deep to unfold all its secrets for Ayurvedic practitioners. But for the common people, it remained a respectable action. This is one major reason, why we do not find any major disease related to sex known in Indian societies. People often quote examples of ‘Khajuraho’ as a symbol of Hindu sex – which is very wrong – why was such sensual images created in caves? Were such caves a general practice of production? How many books of Hindus describe Sex as openly as ‘Khajuraho’? The answers to these questions, clarifies, that there must have been some purpose behind ‘Khajuraho’ which is lost in the past.

Hinduism has never taught utilizing any natural power in negative fashion – unlike modern science. And sex is one such power that exists in Hinduism within natural human boundaries.

It is often seen that one bad belief by virtue of its natural capacity draws another bad belief. If Sex education among children is an attempt to molest the future of nation, the Long Leaders by virtue of their devastating attitude build one after another similar attitude – producing Reservation into system that can eradicate the unity of the nation and prove the critics that Casteism is a part of not only Hinduism, but also of Hindu nation – in which case, the concept of Secularism would be lost and immediately the Hindus would get attached to it.

what happens to children emotionally if returned to their abusers?

The four types of child abuse are: Physical, Neglect, Sexual, and Emotional. I am against child abuse 100 percent. My statement is Should children who have been abused be returned to their abusers? I need to know how children would react to all the four types (listed above) if they were returned back to their abusers.

Have Japanese children always gone to school during the summer months?

I was just wondering, because I’ve heard that there were children who were in school during the bombing of Hiroshima on August 6, 1945.

How can I teach my young children the important of getting involved?

I am very involved in the arts and helping with humanitarian crisis and community work. I would like my two young children to learn the important of compassion and lending a helping hand. What ways can I get my children involved at such young ages so that kindness is something that becomes a big part of their life? Since they are still very young, I want to start off with projects that would be fun yet and instill a sense of pride at their accomplishments of helping. Any ideas?